That’s it tumblr, nobody in the real world cares.
In the real world, outside of the internet and tumblr are people who are going about their day to day lives. They have jobs, loved ones, families, friends, a social life, bills and taxes to pay, dreams and aspirations, and activities.
Out there, no one gives a shit if your OTP is canon or if this fanfiction was well written. No one cares about how oppressed you are because some guy glanced at your chest for a minute. No one cares about your whining about patriarchies and oppression and identities. If you go up to an aquantiance and say “I’m this-gender that-sexual this-race non-binary blah blah blah” they’re gonna look at you like you’re crazy. And when you’re writing out your resume, people hiring aren’t gonna give a shit about your political beliefs.
That’s the world we live in. You are privileged, no matter what race, gender, sex, disability, disorder, you have. You have the internet and the freedom of the internet to spout any nonsense and create any persona you want. You want to be a kawaii pastel-grune transman dangan ronpa-homestuck cosplayer? OK! People on tumblr and cosplay forums and con-goers will be into you.
Everyone needs to go outside and get away from tumblr for a while. Or just the internet. Like go camping or go on a cruise or vacation. Or a walk or a hike or whatever or go to the city or a small town. Just experience life and other people.
You’re going to meet shitty people in your life. But you’ll meet good people too. Even shitty people can change and maybe become your friend or something more. Enough with the judging and labels and oppression, we have only one life to live and our youth is fleeting
Stop taking everything personally and think to yourself the next time you get mad about something inane, “Does anyone actually care about this? Does this really affect my life in anyway?”